Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Please, Don't make me Decide...

Everyday we are hounded by decisions. Personally, I hate making decisions, especially the ones that are “What do you want to eat? Or “What do you want to do tonight?” I am terrible at making these kinds of decisions, but it all usually ends up working out. We have many decisions to make in this life, some insignificant, and some that will have a great impact on our lives, and the lives of those around us.

Last week I was reading a blog post by Al Fox Carraway, and what she said really struck me. She referenced Alma 41:7, which reads, “These are they that are redeemed of the Lord; yeah, these are they that are taken out, that are delivered from that endless night of darkness; and thus they stand or fall; for behold, they are their own judges whether to do good or do evil.” This scripture really hit home for me, and being that I had no plans for that night, I ended up taking a drive over to the temple, and spent two hours soaking in the peace, reading a conference talk, and reading my scriptures. In D&C 87:8 we read, “Wherefore, stand ye in holy places, and be not moved…

Our Father in Heaven has given us a tremendous gift of Agency. We have the ability to make our own choices, decide for ourselves, and be in charge of our own lives. We face decisions about where to go to school, what car to buy, whom to spend our time with, who to date and marry, and many other major life decisions. We also have a daily decision to make concerning the gospel of Jesus Christ. Will I read my scriptures today, will I make time to pray, will I listen to uplifting messages/music, will I be kind to those around me, will I show Christ that I love Him?

LDS.org defines Agency as the “ability and privilege God gives us to choose and to act for ourselves. Agency is essential in the plan of salvation. Without agency, we would not be able to learn or progress or follow the Savior. With it, we arefree to choose liberty and eternal life, through the great Mediator of all men, or to choose captivity and death, according to the captivity and power of the devil” (2 Nephi 2:27).”

Alma shows us that we can stand or fall, choosing whether to do good or evil. Nephi shows us that we are free to choose liberty and eternal life, or captivity and death. The little choices we make daily will have a direct impact on our life, attitude, and ability to live the gospel. We need to put ourselves in more positions where we will choose to make the right choices, and surround ourselves with good.

Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ have an immense trust in us to give us the ability to choose for ourselves. Can you imagine being our Father, watching His sons and daughters make the wrong choices? Can you imagine him thinking, “If I had only made the choice for them, they would not have strayed.” But this is not how He thinks! He trusts that we will make our own decisions, whether right or wrong, and He hopes that someday we will make our way back to Him. I am not a parent, but I can only imagine the thoughts of parents watching their young kids, and wanting so badly just to make their choices for them. But this is not how we learn. If we make a wrong choice, hopefully we can recognize that it was a wrong choice, and correct our mistakes. As parents, you can hope that your children will make the right decisions, and align their life with the gospel of Jesus Christ.

The best choice that we can make is to choose to believe in Jesus Christ, and in our Heavenly Father. Choose to believe that They know what is right for us, and will guide us safely home. Elder L. Whitney Clayton counsels, “Every day each of us faces a test. It is the test of our lifetimes: will we choose to believe in Him and allow the light of His gospel to grow within us, or will we refuse to believe and insist on traveling alone in the dark? The Savior provides His gospel as a light to guide those who choose to believe in and follow Him.” How beautiful this counsel is to us! Everyday we get to make a choice! Everyday we get to say, “I Believe in Christ.” Let us make the right choices and decisions. Let us stand in holy places and surround ourselves with good. If we do, Christ will guide us home.

Here is an awesome Mormon Message that was shared with me, and highlights the test of daily decision making in each of our lives:



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